Friday, January 7, 2011

Real Love , with a meaning . . .

What is real love? 
And is there a difference between that and the heart-pounding adrenaline rush I feel when I see…? You know the person I’m talking about. That hot guy playing basketball at the gym… the cute girl who makes eye contact as she passes by… the friend of a friend of a friend… maybe a best friend. It’s that person we keep track of when he or she is in the same room, whose comments and actions we analyze to no end.
Although real love is often accompanied by strong feelings, love does not equate with the sense of floating on clouds. Unlike the type of love that movies, television, and songs portray, people in love don’t always feel ooey gooey around each other.
A relationship wouldn’t last long on emotions. In fact, knowledge is the basis of a healthy relationship.
Knowing about the other person is key
If one has  to start a relationship with the person, who knows where that would lead them!
Knowing about the person’s personality and character are so important. One good test is to list the qualities that attract us to that guy or girl. If the list is long, we know a lot about them and like those things. If the list is short, we either don’t know a lot about them or we know a lot but aren’t attracted to his or her personality. So understanding is must. Compatibility matters ,as we say !
Another important factor in a relationship is common life goals. 
If the relationship is going to be long term, we need to be going in the same general direction as the other person. If his dream is to travel as an international businessman and she wants to be a realtor in a single location, conflict could arise. If she wants to live in the countryside with nature and he likes the hustle and bustle of a big city, there are potentially serious problems with the direction of the couple’s lives. As such both should look in the same dierction , have a common point of view.
Love isn’t sex.
That statement alone goes against a lot of what the entertainment industry feeds us. Whenever two people hook up in pop culture, they have sex. Without showing some of the unpleasant realities of premarital and extramarital sex, it is drawn up to be a wonderful, fun recreational activity.
Sex is created for marriage–a long-lasting commitment between a couple. Outside of marriage, sex can have harsh consequences. Pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, guilt, insecurity, and shame can follow. A relationship based on lust can only last as long as the two are physically close and find each other sexually attractive.
Love is a choiceIt’s a commitment. 
Although feelings will accompany love, and although sex will be a part of marriage, a lasting, healthy relationship cannot be based on these things.
"Do you ever wonder why we constantly seek love from others but never feel completely satisfied? It’s because God designed us for an unconditional love, and we, as people, are flawed."

Sunday, January 2, 2011

Feel My Love For You Angel

How i tell you that I Love You so much when there are no words to express what i feel…


How can I transfer my feelings to her so she can feel what I feel for her and how deep my love runs for her in my soul.

I sit and wonder how to let her know how much I love her every single day and I never know if the things I do are adequate enough to let her at least glimpse how much I love and cherish her in my life.With her by my side, I feel complete and I never thought I could feel this complete or this way about anyone, but I do feel this way about her. She compliments me in every way, uplifts me, boosts me when I’m down, is patient and understanding with me always even when I’m so frustrating and hard to deal with at times.
She always knows what to say or what to do to make my day better if it hasn’t been so great, she always knows how to boost me up when I’m feeling down. She’s always there with her arms open to hold me and comfort me with when I’m sad. She doesn’t ever put me down or make me feel less than I am and she always makes me feel so alive and so beautiful in her eyes.

I’ve been trying to think of how to express and tell her how much I love and cherish her as my best friend, my true love and everything for so long, but haven’t known how to tell her so I decided to try to write it even though I don’t feel that there are any words in our english language that adequately describe how much I love and cherish her and how much sseh does for me each day.

Well and just like the song by Richard Marx, I’ll always be right here waiting…I don’t want to wait, but I can’t not wait either after having waited so long to find him when he’s so much the right match for me too.

Click here to see this video ; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S_E2EHVxNAE

"It is impossible to be perfect all the time, but it is important to try to be consistent in showing others you love them."

I'm Missing You . . .

Why can't I speak when I have so much to tell?
Why can't I write when I have so much in mind?
Why can't I sing when there's music in my heart?
Why can't I dance when there's rythm in the air?

Too many words left unspoken
Too many things left undone
Why can't it be and why can't I?
For all I know this pain deep inside
Took the gladness from my heart.

Is this the pain of missing you?
Is this the reason behind it all?

Hear the agony of my heart
Longing for you and for your touch
Feeling your lips, feeling your face
Missing your kisses and warm embrace.

When will the waiting ever be over?
For as long as were apart I can never be whole
Oh! My Dearest Love
I just want you to know
That my heart is aching because
"I'M MISSING YOU!"

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Another step ahead . . . 2011


Welcome to the New Year! It is time for change, renewal, and celebration. The great thing about today is that yesterday is gone. You can't go back and undo things you have done, but you can embrace today and look
 toward the future with hope.
Build on yesterday's success and learn from yesterday's failures. Live in today.



Below are ten inspirational, motivational quotes that may encourage you as you begin the journey into the promises of 2008.

The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man.


--George Bernard Shaw


Whether you think you can or whether you think you can't, you're right.


--Henry Ford


Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.


--Helen Keller


I never worry about action, but only about inaction.


--Winston Churchill


The heights by great men reached and kept


Were not attained by sudden flight,
But they, while their companions slept,
Were toiling upward in the night


--Henry Wadsworth Longfellow


If you don't know where you are going,
you'll end up someplace else.


--Yogi Berra


Don't bunt. Aim out of the ballpark.


--
David Ogilvy

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore,
is not an act but a habit.
--Aristotle


Nothing will ever be attempted if all possible objections must first be overcome.


--Samuel Johnson


Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.


--Albert Einstein


May this year be the best year of your life!